Monday, November 2, 2015

For Men -- the 'Boxes' May Not Touch -- and For the Women -- 'Everything is So very Connected'

Aren't women so complex, with the way their brains are wired -- with how "everything is connected, to everything else"? And are men quite simpler, with the way their brains have 'compartments' or "boxes" for everything?

Mark Gungor (the relationship and motivational speaker) explains in a hilarious demonstration, about the brain differences of how men and women are wired. Every man, may very-well relate to the fact that they separate things in compartments. "Boxes" -- as zzz states it. And ever woman, may very-well relate to the fact that they (being women), "connect everything, to everything-else".

Isn't it quite amazing, how men can go fishing and "do nothing" and "not let the boxes touch each other" -- while women, can "connect everything, to everything-else" and we all can get along with those funny and functional differences, that are a part of being men and women?

If you're a woman, can you share your perspective on men's compartmentalizing brains? And if you are a man -- What's your perspective, on how women "connect everything, to everything-else"?

Sunday, November 1, 2015

Gaining Insight About the Science of Cheating in Relationships

If we want to rationalize the scientific reasons why we may cheat -- the video below, is great for insight and support, as to the 'meat and potatoes' (if you will) of cheating.

Whether it's hormonally-related or simply in-the-genetics of human beings to cheat -- cheaters can be found; though, it's certainly not in the game-plan of cheaters (right?); probably, because, cheating is not necessarily all about the innate programming to produce offspring. It may also be, about the rush from the fun of the game of cheating.

In the video below, you may explore and gain insight about the chemistry or biology of the 'cheating-prone'. As well as, the flipside of cheating; being, about individuals who do not have that drive in them.


The Message of Empowerment is Understanding That Changing the Programming May Very-Well Empower You

Lisa A. Romano delivers a profound message, about empaths and co-dependants. Why do they attract narcissistic and sociopathic individuals? As Lisa explains -- It has a lot to do with programming; especially messages that young people get, while growing-up. From what I have gathered, after having watched the video below, is this -- The vibrations that are projected, are associated with what 'the heart' tells 'the mind' -- and if we send a message out into the world, that we are 'not' okay (if that is what we have learned, while growing-up), then, we will probably be like a jerk-magnet -- and who needs that kind of grief?

If we let the world know, that we truly love ourselves -- we will show it, by putting ourselves first. And therefore, we may stand-firm boundary-wise. Respecting ourselves by establishing and standing-firm with our personal boundaries, is essential in loving ourselves and attracting healthy relationships. Those established and honored boundaries, are typically hard for empaths and co-dependants to have, if they have had very negative programming from the start. The positive and self-empowering thing  for the empaths and co-dependants to do, is to understand that it's about 'the programming' and to start with love for oneself.

Lisa's presentation is very touching and inspiring. Hope that you too, may see and take her message to-heart (if you may be a very sensitive empathetic person, who is always worried about the feelings of others) -- or, if you are also a co-dependant -- who tends to attract jerks; and who is definitely looking to break the cycle and spiritually, along with mentally become empowered and heal.