If you are in a positive and healthy relationship, that union may be a very precious thing, because having harmony, love, caring, understanding, is a very beautiful and desired thing. (For some; but, then -- why not for all?)
Do you ever wonder this: Why do people sometimes thrive in conflict and have a deep need to control and help another individual to be miserable?
And this question: Why do some people remain in negative and unhealthy relationships, to begin with? Are they not aware, that being in unhealthy relationships, is like being in a dead-end job that hinders growth, happiness and well-being?
Life and survival can be real challenging. And making the right choices for oneself, regarding a job or personal relationships, is not always easy, either. Sometimes, we stick-with what we think is working; because we may feel that we do not have any-other options. When in reality, what we think is working, is really unsuitable, dysfunctional and a bad choice for our positive future and well-being.
There are always other options, regarding work choices and personal relationships. It's all-about one's choice to "see-the-light" and to have the courage and resources to step in the right direction, to take action to healthier relationships.
What are your thoughts about being stuck in a relationship-rut, and taking the initiative to look at if the relationship has a future, or if it is so dysfunctional, that one would be much better-off to move-on and grow?
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