For Men -- the 'Boxes' May Not Touch -- and For the Women -- 'Everything is So very Connected'

Aren't women so complex, with the way their brains are wired -- with how "everything is connected, to everything else"? And are men quite simpler, with the way their brains have 'compartments' or "boxes" for everything?

Mark Gungor (the relationship and motivational speaker) explains in a hilarious demonstration, about the brain differences of how men and women are wired. Every man, may very-well relate to the fact that they separate things in compartments. "Boxes" -- as zzz states it. And ever woman, may very-well relate to the fact that they (being women), "connect everything, to everything-else".

Isn't it quite amazing, how men can go fishing and "do nothing" and "not let the boxes touch each other" -- while women, can "connect everything, to everything-else" and we all can get along with those funny and functional differences, that are a part of being men and women?

If you're a woman, can you share your perspective on men's compartmentalizing brains? And if you are a man -- What's your perspective, on how women "connect everything, to everything-else"?

Gaining Insight About the Science of Cheating in Relationships

If we want to rationalize the scientific reasons why we may cheat -- the video below, is great for insight and support, as to the 'meat and potatoes' (if you will) of cheating.

Whether it's hormonally-related or simply in-the-genetics of human beings to cheat -- cheaters can be found; though, it's certainly not in the game-plan of cheaters (right?); probably, because, cheating is not necessarily all about the innate programming to produce offspring. It may also be, about the rush from the fun of the game of cheating.

In the video below, you may explore and gain insight about the chemistry or biology of the 'cheating-prone'. As well as, the flipside of cheating; being, about individuals who do not have that drive in them.

The Message of Empowerment is Understanding That Changing the Programming May Very-Well Empower You

Lisa A. Romano delivers a profound message, about empaths and co-dependants. Why do they attract narcissistic and sociopathic individuals? As Lisa explains -- It has a lot to do with programming; especially messages that young people get, while growing-up. From what I have gathered, after having watched the video below, is this -- The vibrations that are projected, are associated with what 'the heart' tells 'the mind' -- and if we send a message out into the world, that we are 'not' okay (if that is what we have learned, while growing-up), then, we will probably be like a jerk-magnet -- and who needs that kind of grief?

If we let the world know, that we truly love ourselves -- we will show it, by putting ourselves first. And therefore, we may stand-firm boundary-wise. Respecting ourselves by establishing and standing-firm with our personal boundaries, is essential in loving ourselves and attracting healthy relationships. Those established and honored boundaries, are typically hard for empaths and co-dependants to have, if they have had very negative programming from the start. The positive and self-empowering thing  for the empaths and co-dependants to do, is to understand that it's about 'the programming' and to start with love for oneself.

Lisa's presentation is very touching and inspiring. Hope that you too, may see and take her message to-heart (if you may be a very sensitive empathetic person, who is always worried about the feelings of others) -- or, if you are also a co-dependant -- who tends to attract jerks; and who is definitely looking to break the cycle and spiritually, along with mentally become empowered and heal.

Sadness Is -- Sometimes People Need to Leave Bad Relationships and They Don't

It is unfortunate, that some people stay in relationships because it is not their first choice. Whether it is because of insecurity; they need a place to stay (financial reasons); they feel sorry for their partner; they don't want to look bad (be the one to break things-up); or it's for the kids (even though, the environment for the children, may not be positive.)

To have the courage and the means to leave a relationship, is essential; especially, if the other partner is controlling or abusive. 

To think that many people stay in bad relationships, because they may think that they do not have another choice is quite sad. 

We only have the lives that we choose to live. However -- Some individuals, may choose to be in better conditions than others. And they also may need to find their light, at the end of the tunnel. 

Hope You Are Attracting and Appreciating Your Positive Relationships -- Rather Than Settling For and Allowing Dysfunctional Ones in Your Life

Is being in a relationship with an individual who no-doubt respects and appreciates you, something that you take for granted? Or, is it a relationship that you would not even think of allowing to be any different? Kind of like beauty; money; and a good job that suites you -- if you are in a good relationship, you may take it for granted, until you lose it. And if you have not been in a "functional" relationship -- ever, you may be so conditioned to "bad" relationships, that you may not have the focus to attract anything different in your life.

You do know what they say, right? "If you keep doing the same thing..." -- or, if you don't believe that you deserve anything better, you will still attract those dysfunctional relationships, until you change your mind; your attitude; and your behavior. Once you stand firm, as to how you will be treated and show that you respect yourself in that regard, then you will be able to attract the right people in your life; among other positive situations. (And I know -- It's sometimes easier-said-than-done.) 

The Irony of Closeness and Distance in Relationships

It's funny, how in relationships -- someone can be in bed and next to a person, and still be distant from him or her; Or -- Someone, could be a thousand miles away from a person, and still be close-by-heart to him or her.

Is that not quite ironical?

To Have a Bond With a Best Friend is Essential

Having a best friend is one of the nicest joys in life. Especially, if your best friend is someone whom you have grown-up with, or even, your husband or wife.

The bond that best friends share, is awesome. A best friend, is someone you can share your immediate thoughts and experiences with; and of course, it can be a family member (like a mother or brother).

To be able to reach-out and be in-touch with someone, whimsically or on serious occasions, is an essential part of relationships.

What do you think?